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Correct!
We are actually all experts
at putting ourseves into trance. Bear in mind the modern definition
of trance :
" being in a state
of mind where you
- feel very absorbed
in what you are doing
- have a specific and
limited focus of attention
- are often more aware
of your internal world rather than the external one."
This modern definition
allows to us to begin to recognise how many different trance states
there are, in fact you could say everything is a trance experience.
This perspective changes
our view on trance entirely, so that if for instance we look at
feeling anxious before an interview, then it's clear that:
If we're in an anxious
trance,
we feel very absorbed
in what we're are doing-we're completely wrapped up in the anxiety
of the situation, creating nasty movies inside our heads of how
bad the interview is going to be .
we have a specific and limited focus of attention-we focus completely
on the things that make us anxious.
We are often more aware of your internal world rather than the external
one- so we exclude any information from the external world (like
the interviewer isn't really a cold-blooded monster who can read
our inner thoughts) that might calm us down and focus on horror
movies of how bad it's going to be.
All conversations
could be called "trance inducing"
Any conversation will
change your internal state of mind, even talking about your holiday
to a friend will involve you remembering how it felt to be on the
holiday whilst your friend will be imagining what it was like, and
remembering holidays that they've been on that were similar in some
way.
You are both therefore,
by definition, in a trance state.
In our change work we
will often just use normal conversation to help people sort out
their issues. If people were expecting some hypnosis they will often
say, "but you never put me in trance."
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